This last week, Emmett started throwing tantrums. Insane, loud, ugly, mean, nasty, day-long tantrums. We have no idea where they came from, but they are here y'all, and they are crazy! When he wants me to pick him up, tantrum. When he wants me to put him down half a second later, tantrum. He used to sign "please" or "more" or "all done", but no more. Now it's just screams and screeches and flailing and more screams.
Since he started daycare last week, he's been super attached to me. "Mamamamama" all day, always wanting to be held, pulling on my shirt begging to be nursed (we're working so hard to wean him, but he's not having it). He wakes up 13 times a night just screaming/screeching and calling for me, then falls asleep again, so tired. Separation anxiety is the worst!
We spent the weekend trying to head off tantrums, taking him to a birthday party, to the park, to the splash pad, to the bookstore, just doing anything we could to keep him busy and distracted so he wouldn't yell at us. We're afraid of our own son! Okay that's a major exaggeration, but not really. He's terrifying right now.
I know he's just getting used to a new schedule, new people, new places. I took a lot of time off the last few weeks, so he's become used to me being home most of the time. He freaks out when I leave him, and even follows me into the bathroom. If I leave him at all, it's big fat tears and screams and flailing. It's so sad! He's just playing me though- as soon as I'm gone he's happy, playing with his toys or his friends until he sees me again. Then it's more screams and tears, just enough to punish me.
He's mostly really sweet and fun, but those tantrums are killing us! We've had a rough few weeks, and it's easy to forget that everything going on in our lives affects Emmett too. Poor little thing is just trying to figure it all out and get used to his new schedule. So am I, so I can't blame him!
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| Balloon obsessed at a friend's birthday party. |
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| Warming up in the sun after running through the sprinkler. |
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| Shivering at the splash pad! |
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| Baby boy loves to be upside down these days. Whatever it takes! |
Ted has the same blue outfit from Gap! Love it!
ReplyDeleteKellie I love Baby Gap! I have to stay away unless there's a sale on, which is always. ;)
DeleteOh sister! I feel your pain! Jack has been in a similar stage for a few weeks now and it is tough. I wish I had a handful of solutions...instead just know you are not alone. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Kelly! It's such a tough stage, but I know poor little Emmett is just getting used to all these changes! Good thing they're so cute! ;)
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